I think it’s probable that we have all found
ourselves in the disconcerting situation where a friend or relative is faced
with bereavement, job loss, divorce, or illness – to name just a few identified
major life stressors.
We are usually quick to say “what can I do to
help”, or, “if there’s anything you need, call me”. Even the most generous
hearts and minds can feel stymied when it comes to stepping forward, perhaps
with a hand up or a hand out. It’s sometimes awkward to find the right words,
or worse – trepidation about saying something that will sit inappropriately.
If the response is stilted, it’s easier to
back away rather than hold fast in our offer – probably the recipient of our
goodwill is just as uncertain as we are! I love and treasure the sensitivity of
this quote by Martin Luther King, Jr…
”The ultimate measure of a man is not where
he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times
of challenge and controversy.”
Regardless of our personal opinions or convictions
on disputable subjects, striving to retain our integrity and strength of
character by not making unsolicited comments will always hold us in good stead.
In this unrelenting world of work, busyness, socializing and family, it’s easy
to get caught up in our own activities.
When you hear of someone who is struggling
through mire, telephone or write a note and follow through.
Imagine how thrilled the recipient will feel
when the going gets tough!
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