A current T-V commercial which
features a couple embracing their paid-off mortgage also includes an older
woman and an adult child in the background. They join in to share a group hug –
and somehow the thrill of the moment is diminished when the realization dawns
that now there’s more money available, others need it!
Regardless of income, there’s always
outgo that is either in or out-of-balance; and requests for a hand up can be
difficult to deny. I know of a woman who is pretty in appearance but unpretty
in disposition. Her disappointments must be many, for though she has recovered
from a medical diagnosis and hopefully is counting her lucky stars,
conversation is peppered with complaints. This habit is a deterrent for anyone,
and as she seemingly has turned more fretful, even her family hasn’t appeared
for a while.
Everyone has moments when we wish
things could be better, it’s human nature to have more “I wants” than there are
“I needs” – if a need is identifiable and actual however, sometimes adult
offspring will step up and pay a few outstanding bills or cover car repairs if
they are able. This past winter has played havoc with everyone’s budget, from
snowploughing to utility costs!
If there is any strategizing to be
implemented, in search for temporary financial respite especially, personal
assets of a pleasant disposition, putting on a smile, and remembering good
manners are priceless. My mother always quipped that “you get more bees with
honey than with vinegar” – so turn that frown upside down if you’re out on a
limb.
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